Just saying ok

Friends- When it comes to boys I'm very harsh on them ... I let them be out there all alone ... But when it comes to females More of ... soft love ... Boys? Harsh love. .. I leave them out there alone ... That's how u grew up as a boy .. But ladies I give them soft love But I always tell them "Lean martial arts #itches ok .. " "Learn self defense "Ok and stop complaining and %itching